The hardest thing I would say is to figure out what a woman actually wants from you. I have been in a number of relationships in my lifetime, but only a couple of them were easy for me to understand. I knew what they wanted, some just wanted it to be purely physical, whereas, another wanted to take it nice and slow so we would eventually end up marrying each other and surprisingly some had a little too weird sex fantasies for me. However, most of them were really confusing. I was not able to tell whether she was actually interested in me. One thing that women are great it and we cannot even come close to is sending mixed signals. I have literally gotten headaches trying to understand what most of them expected from me.

However, I was eventually able to understand most of them and this article will explain you a couple of different personal experiences that highlight perfectly the type of girls that there are. Firstly, I met one girl that I approached at a club and told her straight up that I was interested in her. She said some unpleasant things to me and left. The mistake I made was that I tried to go straight to the top of the ladder, when I should have tried to go systematically.

The next time around, I met another every attractive woman at a nice dinner party and I started very slowly, keeping in mind that my direct approach rarely works. We had a nice conversation and really hit things off; I felt a nice connection that I really wanted to work on. However, instead of throwing myself at her that night, I left with a single and a phone number. I do not know how I was able to control myself, but now I had something to look forward too. After a couple of weeks, there was no contact between us and she did not even bothered to answer my phone calls, then I asked a common friend of ours to see if she knew anything. In addition, to my surprise, my friend told me that the girl I was calling did not want anything to do with me because I blew her off that night at the dinner. I did not know what to do and was very shocked because for once, I tried to make the right move and it backfired.

However, I did not let this derail my willingness to succeed and end up in a real relationship. Moving along, after that drama I actually met a couple of more girls that I dated, but was not really able to close the deal for one reason or another. These were four real examples of the types of women that I actually dated and I was left speechless due to the response. I cannot be too strong or too soft, some just want a friend, others do not allow any touching and some just want sex. I am still working on trying to understand the psyche of women, but until then all I can do is keep trying.